Saturday, October 16, 2010

Saturday - Steve & Rita Leave

(Note:  I think I fixed the settings so comments can now be added.)

The Gang Green in Savannah is getting smaller by the day.  Steve and Rita left after our late breakfast.  Rita was the Kitchen Queen cooking and cleaning nonstop since she's been here, thank you very much!  Steve was wonderful with Dad, helping with every little thing, attending to his personal needs, listening to his stories and providing much needed comic relief.

Dad's night was too short last night, waking up at 4 AM then every hour until about 7 when the rest of the crowd decided to stay up.  Libbie and Steve went WAY out of their way to drive to McDonald's to get Dad his favorite sausage cheese biscuit.  They were half way home when they discovered the order wasn't right.  Back they went, reordered, and came home.  Unfortunately, Dad's sausage and cheese was on a McGriddle instead of a biscuit, but Dad ate every bite.  It was a lot of time and effort on their part to give Dad a special breakfast, which was very gracious of them!

Dad took a long nap after breakfast, and Libbie and I took a 3-mile walk.  Then we had showers, did catch-up work on our computers, and it was lunch time.  Dad woke up.  He complained of chest and back pain, which is getting to be a more common complaint.  We gave him a shot (by mouth) of his liquid morphine booster.  For the first time in ages, I gave him a lunch without asking what he wanted.  He started talking about peanut butter and jelly, but I already had a hot dog and mac & cheese on his plate.  He was perfectly happy, especially when Lib gave him a bowl of ice cream with the last brownie (from Rita) for dessert.

Then, surprise surprise, a box of oatmeal cookies arrived via FedEx, courtesy of Mom.  These cookies were shipped from St. Louis, where Mom and Dad used to get them during their high school days.  Dad was thrilled!  He asked for a malt to go with his first cookie.

It was football time - Dad snoozed on and off in the afternoon, possibly due to the extra morphine, and at one point wanted more ice cream but had peaches and jello instead.  He was wide awake and hungry again by 6.  We had salads and spaghetti bolognese.

Dad was ready for bed by 8:30, but we managed to keep him up for another hour.  He did very well in the transfer from big blue chair to wheelchair, wheelchair to bed, and sitting position to sleeping position.  He took all his pills without complaint and happily settled down for the evening.

He was very complimentary today of all his family and all we do for him.  He had some imaginative moments, handing me an nonexistent remote to put on the table, for example, but nothing major.  Most of his conversations were right on target.  It was a calm and easy day.

Libbie leaves tomorrow, and I'll miss her.  Besides being good company, she laundered all the sheets on the beds, did all the towels, washed a ton of dishes, made salads, kept me walking fast on our route, gave us an hour to visit some returning friends, and jumped up whenever Dad needed something.  She'll be here with Dad tonight while Dave and I go home, but she has strict orders to call if she needs help.  I hope Dad, and therefore Libbie, sleep well!

3 comments:

  1. Yep, we can now leave comments.

    Jim & Helen raised 5 excellent kids, and Jim is reaping the benefits of that now. You all are doing a terrific job, and I admire you very much. Special kudos to spouses Dave and Rita for all that you are doing as well.

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  2. Everyone appreciates everything Cindy and Dave do every day...and it's hard on all the others to be there, or NOT be there, as they are every bit as concerned. It's wonderful how the family has shifted their priorities to be of help, but also to be with Jim as much as possible.
    None of my friends know Jim, but all want to see your blog, Cindy. How you find time for that, too, after a full day is amazing.
    I thank every one of the Greens and Dave and Rita - and Uncle Jack - for all they do mentally and physically. Steve's on the phone...bye for now. Helen aka Mom

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  3. Dad sits in his favorite blue chair all day, and between naps we talk to him, watch tv, read the newspaper to him, whatever he wants. When that box of cookies arrived from Mom, I hadn't seen him smile that big all day! Cindy and I were in the other room when Dave took the box to him, and when we walked in he was sitting there holding four cookies in his hand, grinning from ear to ear. We teased him about eating all four of those cookies himself, but he picked out one for each of us. And they were delicious!! Thank you Mom!!

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